Written by Klarity Editorial Team
Published: Oct 31, 2025

In a world where the average person checks their phone 96 times per day—that’s once every 10 minutes—the relationship between humans and their devices has evolved from convenient tool to potential dependency. For Gen Z, who grew up with smartphones as digital extensions of themselves, the consequences on mental health have become increasingly apparent. From social media anxiety to the persistent fear of missing out (FOMO), our constant connectivity comes with costs that many are only now beginning to recognize and address.
Smartphone addiction isn’t accidental—it’s by design. Tech companies employ sophisticated psychological techniques to keep users engaged and scrolling.
Each notification, like, and message triggers a small dopamine hit in our brains—the same neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward. This creates a powerful feedback loop, conditioning us to check our devices constantly in anticipation of that next rewarding interaction.
‘The average person touches their phone 2,617 times daily,’ says Dr. Sarah Johnson, a clinical psychologist specializing in tech-related behavioral issues. ‘We’ve essentially been trained to respond to our devices the way Pavlov’s dogs responded to a bell.’
For Gen Z in particular, the fear of missing out drives compulsive checking behaviors. Social media platforms showcase carefully curated highlights of others’ lives, creating unrealistic standards and fostering unhealthy comparison.
‘I felt like everyone was living these amazing lives while I was just…existing,’ shares Mia, 22. ‘It took deleting Instagram for three months to realize how much anxiety it was causing me.’
The consequences of smartphone dependency extend beyond mere distraction. Research increasingly links excessive smartphone use to concerning mental health outcomes.
Studies show correlations between heavy social media use and increased rates of anxiety and depression among young adults. The constant pressure to maintain online presence and respond immediately creates a state of perpetual alertness that taxes our nervous systems.
Many report a sense of lost presence—the inability to fully engage with their surroundings without digital interruption. Creative thinking requires periods of boredom and mind-wandering that constant stimulation eliminates.
‘When was the last time you sat with your thoughts without reaching for your phone?’ asks Dr. Michael Wei, a psychiatrist at Klarity Health who specializes in technology’s impact on mental wellness. ‘That space between stimulation is where our most original ideas emerge.’
Fortunately, increasing awareness has led to practical solutions for those seeking to regain balance.
Designate specific areas (bedrooms, dining tables) and times (first hour after waking, meals, before bed) as phone-free. Use a real alarm clock instead of your phone to avoid morning scrolling.
Both Android and iOS now offer screen time tracking and app limits. These tools provide concrete data about usage patterns and allow you to set boundaries on problematic apps.
Devices like the Light Phone offer essential functions (calling, texting, music) without social media, browsers, or email—providing connectivity without the addictive elements.
‘Switching to a minimalist phone changed everything for me,’ explains Jordan, 25. ‘I’m still reachable but not constantly bombarded. My anxiety levels have dropped dramatically.’
Before unlocking your phone, pause and ask: ‘Why am I checking this right now? What am I hoping to gain?’ This simple mindfulness practice can break automatic checking habits.
Start with phone-free evenings, then progress to weekend detoxes. Some find that a week or month-long break provides perspective on their relationship with technology.
The goal isn’t eliminating technology but developing a healthier relationship with it. At Klarity Health, therapists work with patients to identify when smartphone use shifts from helpful to harmful and develop personalized strategies for digital wellbeing.
‘We’re seeing more young adults seeking help specifically for technology-related anxiety,’ notes Dr. Wei. ‘The good news is that with awareness and structured interventions, people can reclaim their attention and mental clarity.’
As awareness grows, we’re witnessing a cultural shift toward more mindful technology use. Tech companies themselves are responding with new features focused on digital wellbeing, while schools incorporate media literacy programs that address healthy technology habits.
For parents concerned about their children’s screen time, experts recommend modeling healthy behaviors rather than simply imposing restrictions. Open conversations about the benefits and risks of technology create foundation for balanced use.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by your relationship with your smartphone, you’re not alone. Start small—perhaps with a screen-free evening or morning—and notice how it affects your mood and focus. Pay attention to which apps leave you feeling better versus worse after using them.
For those struggling with more severe technology-related anxiety or depression, professional support is available. Klarity Health’s mental health professionals offer specialized approaches for addressing digital dependency and building healthier relationships with technology while treating underlying anxiety or depression issues.
Remember that technology should serve as a tool that enhances your life—not one that controls it. The path to digital wellbeing begins with awareness and continues with intentional choices about how, when, and why we connect.
Research suggests it takes approximately 21 days to form or break a habit, but smartphone habits may require longer due to their dopamine-reinforcing nature. Most people report significant improvements after consistent boundaries for 4-6 weeks.
Yes. Start with small boundaries like phone-free lunches or evenings after a certain hour. Communicate your availability boundaries to colleagues and use features like scheduled email sending and focus modes during work hours.
Experts generally recommend delaying smartphones until at least middle school (around age 13-14) and implementing graduated access with parental controls and ongoing conversations about healthy usage.
Yes. Apps with infinite scrolling, variable reward mechanisms (like notifications), and social validation features (likes, comments) are specifically designed to maximize engagement and can be more habit-forming.
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